How to push back on an unrealistic deadline

Short answer: say “That deadline is tight. To hit it, we'd need to cut the extras.”

DON'T SAY
“Sure, whatever works.”
when it doesn't
SAY THIS
“That deadline is tight. To hit it, we'd need to cut the extras.”
Spelling out the trade-off makes the decision a shared one.

When to use it

Use it when you're handed a deadline that can't be met without cutting something. Say what it would take to hit the date. Now the person asking knows the trade-off and can choose: keep the date and cut scope, or keep the scope and move the date.

Example

Manager: “We need this by the 15th.”

You: “That deadline is tight. To hit it, we'd need to cut the extras, like the export feature.”

Manager: “Let's cut export for now.”

In an email or Slack message

In email: “The 15th is doable if we drop the export feature. With export, the realistic date is the 22nd. Which would you prefer?” Two clear options get a fast decision.

Quick drill

When you already know the answer is no, whether it's a committee, a side project or an event.

Which sounds more confident?

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